Feb
Criticism is easy — it just doesn’t help anyone
Filed Under (Habits) by Alvin Mites on 09-02-2012
criticism is easy, spotting faults requires very little effort
Feb
criticism is easy, spotting faults requires very little effort
Dec
Find a quiet space, and imagine a room where there are 2 chairs and invite yourself 5 years from now to join you and have a conversation, ask any questions that you are unsure of and observe the differences between yourself now and the projection
then dismiss your future self, switch chairs and chat with yourself 5 years ago
inspired a great number of internal shifts without any other effort, been encouraging to realize that I have all the knowhow to accomplish most anything I want, just a matter of applying myself – largely through (re)building habits
How about you? What habits would make a difference between where you are now and where you see yourself in 5 years?
While logically working on the biggest change the great fulcrum that will change everything is tempting it can easily become a distraction to prevent you from getting started on making changes. If you don’t have a clear answer then pick 1 thing and get started, after a few days (5 seems to be the critical number) momentum will start to carry you forward.
– Thank you Steve Pavlina for the inspiration of the technique
PS. Yes this is grammatically terrible, this is a 1st draft which is a habit I will continue for several posts at least as I develop the habit of writing to this blog more often.
Apr
Mar
I recently finished listening to Malcolm Gladwell‘s new book Outliers - The Story of Success <Audio Edition> (yes I listen to a majority of the books I peruse, topic for another time). Which has already changed my life. I cannot remember a time when I have felt luckier for the random luck in my life, especially in my earlier years. It has truly acted as a humbling experience, in a truly positive way.
The Story of Success begins by searching out some of the most successful people in the world and finding a pattern than links them all together. World class performers within their field, some of whom managed to create new records and/or shape parts of our society in valuable ways. The common thread began with a magic number 10,000 hours. Ten thousand hours of practice is the difference between a beginner, and a true world class expert. Whether your a software programmer, violin player, lawyer or in another field entirely. If you stick in 10,000 hours of real work into your passion you can become one of the greats.
This may not seem like such a big number when you first think about it, 10 years at 40 hours a week and your there. The big differences between those that find a hobby and get good, and those that become great. While Malcolm wrote about several other topics in the book, this one hit me the hardest. Imagine working in a field for that long and not loving what you do. What a terrible waste.
If you find a task that you love to do and pick it up right now, you could likely be earning an income from it in 6 months to a year. If you were lucky enough to find something that you love when you were young, and have an environment where that skill could be nurtured what do you think you can accomplish?
If you want to become a great writer, start writing, a great artis(t|an) start creating. Nothing short of practice is going to take you from beginner to mediocre, and from there to greatness.